The Instinctual Woman

Láyla Messner

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Layla Messner on the summit of a mountain.

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The Instinctual Woman

Hi, I’m Láyla Messner, the autistic art activist who grew up in the wilderness.

Now, I’m on a mission to raise awareness about high-masking autism and invisible disability.

01/03

Art Activism

As an autistic artist, painting is my natural language. My abstract expressionist paintings are highly sensory, gestural, and process-oriented.

I’m painting my own transformation. In order to finish each piece, I have to become a different person than I was when I started it. 

The transformation is the art—the painting is just a side-effect.

Autistic thought leader Layla Messner speaking about the brain as part of the environment
02/03

Thought Leadership

My talks raise awareness about high-masking autism and invisible disability. I share from lived experience as an invisibly disabled AuDHD trauma survivor with severe migraine disorder and chronic pain.

Through vulnerable storytelling, authenticity, and a unique way of looking at the world, I bring clarity to complex topics and inspire audiences to think differently.

03/03

Community Building

On Instagram and Facebook, I create a space where high-masking autistic adults and others with invisible disabilities can see themselves reflected, validated, and understood.

It’s a space where we have real conversations – about masking, burnout, ableism, identity, and our need for support.

It’s more than content – it’s connection. 

Layla Messner, the Instinctual Woman, on a mountain summit by Kelly's Perspective
Layla Messner, The Instinctual Woman, in a waterfall, wearing a red halter top. Portrait by Kelly Russell.
Layla Messner sitting on a mountain, overlooking the bow valley in Canmore Kananaskis. Photo by Kelly's Perspective.
Layla Messner, The Instinctual Woman, walking barefoot behind a vintage Jeep YJ
Layla Messner, the Instinctual Woman, beside a lake in a sports bra and leggings. Photo by Kelly's perspective.
Layla Messner, The Instinctual Woman, in a red lace corset dress in the snow at Vermillion Lakes in Banff National Park

Photography by @kellys.perspective

Layla Messner, The Instinctual Woman, sitting on a jeep YJ by Kelly's Perspective

Break Free

FREE 10-Day Program to Reclaim Your Wildness

A step-by-step journey to meet your Inner Animal, trust your instincts, and express your natural self without worrying what others think. Isn’t it time to be free?